Effect of healthy , unhealthy relationship to society 

Pastor Eyong Duke Ibiang

Introduction
Have you ever wondered how the way we approach relationships might affect society at large?

The Society we have today is a result of Health And Unhealthy Relationships the devastating consequences of misconceived relationships are starkly evident.

Violence, broken marriages, and criminal behavior are rampant, leaving shattered lives and communities in their wake. It’s time to confront these harmful views and embrace God’s design for relationships, fostering a violence-free community built on mutual love, respect, and commitment.

Destructive relationship myths 
– Selfishness: Prioritizing individual desires over collective well-being.
– Disposability: Viewing relationships as temporary and expendable.
– Unrealistic Expectations: Believing partners will fulfill all needs.

Devastating Consequences 
– Violence: Selfish desires lead to abuse, aggression, and shattered lives.

– Marital Breakdown: Lack of commitment results in separation, divorce, and emotional trauma.
– Criminal Behavior: Unfulfilled expectations drive individuals to theft, violence, and other crimes, perpetuating cycles of harm.

Godly relationship: The antidote 
– Mutual Submission (Ephesians 5:21): Valuing each other’s needs, growth, and well-being.
– Covenant Commitment (Matthew 19:6): Embracing lifelong unity, fidelity, and support.
– Servant Love (John 13:34-35): Prioritizing each other’s well-being, demonstrating selfless love and care.

Biblical Example: Aquila and Priscilla’s marriage (Acts 18:2-3, 26) exemplifies a Godly relationship, showcasing mutual support, commitment, and servant love. Their relationship was built on a foundation of trust, respect, and devotion, inspiring others to follow their example.

Thriving families and communities

– Godly relationships lead to successful, happy families (Proverbs 22:6, Ephesians 6:4), raising responsible citizens (Proverbs 29:17).
– Communities built on Godly relationships experience reduced violence, increased social cohesion, and a renewed sense of purpose.

In conclusion
Let us reject harmful relationship myths and embrace God’s design for love. By choosing Godly relationships, we create a violence-free Society where love, respect, and commitment thrive. Together, let us build a brighter future, grounded in the unwavering love and grace of God.

Eyong Duke Ibiang
Pastor, Mercy And Truth Bible Church.
Lugbe, Abuja, Nigeria, Phone No. : 08146644443
Email Address: dukeonthemail@gmail.com